inthesaddle replied to your post: The honest truth
This is a little black and white, don’t you think? I mean, you don’t have ANYTHING in common with your friends just because they have a baby and you don’t? Seems really one sided and a little unfair.
But I can be unfair and black and white. It’s me. I really don’t have anything in common with the people I have known that have had kids. That doesn’t mean I pushed them away, rather the opposite. I got left out when they do things with people who have kids, because I don’t understand the kid thing. I get that they have other stuff more important going on and you grow apart. In my experience once a friend has kids they move of and gravitate to people with kids and not their single friends. But like I said, that’s my experience and not everyones.